After reading the lovely post written by a blogger friend Sumita,
a certain kind of 'feel good' feeling engulfed me. I always love to have a
hectic day tagged with variety of
activities. Stagnancy and monotonousness makes me irritated and
lethargic. I still remember those few months which I consider as one of the
low phases of my life when I sat idle at home (grad results delayed & pg
classes not started). Anyways, as usual I digress. This kind of desired
schedule I enjoyed during last couple of years of my job. My role offered me
variety of activities and new challenges every day. But as now I am settled as
a SAHM, honestly speaking, my life has again become very predictable and
routine oriented. It is not exactly dull but yes, a bit stagnant. I don't deny
the special joy & happiness which motherhood has brought in my life, but
sometimes I do miss 'myself'.
So as I read Sumita's post, I yearned to write a similar post of
my desired day. But recently, any of my normal day routine never qualified to
make it up to my 'wish list' routine...every day is somehow same :-( But
yesterday after a long time I went off-routine.
Woke up in the morning early with Mishti shouting and almost
having a verbal fight with her dad. Poor daddy felt like cuddling the sleeping
beauty but the daughter hates snuggling...while sleeping also she occupies
almost half of the bed and rest half is left her parents. So she got super
irritated with her dad and woke up before time. I tried to make her sleep again
but when she refused to lie again and started her climbing sessions (yeah...she
loves to climb the railings of our wrought iron bed), I drove the
dad-daughter duo out of bed room.
As SG prepared tea, I pulled myself out of bed. After tea, SG rushed to wash his hair so that he can go for a hair-cut. He sports almost a military style hair cut and makes too much fuss if he does not visit his barber after every 20 days.....I think I should meet his barber once!!!!. In the meantime I prepare breakfast and try to feed Mishti. As I accomplish this mission SG comes back. I had previously planned to visit my parlor today....so SG agrees to prepare lunch and manage Mishti as well (You see...why I am so happy!!). It almost took me more than 2 hours there....came back and had lunch with hot n spicy Egg-curry & rice.
Then I started bugging SG that I want to buy some good
tops...most of the older ones doesn’t fit me. After much nagging he gave up and
asked me to go to the local mall and get it myself( he volunteered to look
after Mishti in the meantime)......Me and my sis grabbed the idea(happy happy!!).
We went for shopping and bought 1 top, 3 pair of footwear (one for me
& two for her). I almost managed to lose the credit card!! Yes...after
buying the top we went to choose some gift item for the baby whose birthday
party we were invited the same evening. As we were getting the gift packed
my sis went out of shop to attend some call...I was carrying all the
carry-bags. Then we went to another floor of that mall
and entered the footwear shop. But when it was time for
billing....I could not place my credit card...Gah!!!.....I checked my wallet in
and out.... and rushed to that gift shop....When I asked him, he
smiled and said yes I have a card......ufff..Such a relief!!!...but
as he took out the card, it was not mine!!!....I again went back to that
footwear shop where my sis waited. Again we searched for it and found it my
sister's wallet ....remember I was carrying all the bags so I kept the credit
card back but in wrong wallet!!!
By the time we returned back it was almost 5:30 PM. As I
mentioned earlier, we were invited to attend the birthday party of kid of SG's
friend, so started getting ready....and left home at 6:30 PM.....reached
there by 8PM ( in Delhi). It was a nice party organized in one of the halls of
DSOI. Enjoyed the food and watched live magic show...It was fun. SG took Mishti
to the magician when he took out a pigeon out of a box and made that bird sit
on Mishti's arms. Ohhh God...that girl is not at all frightened and was
giggling!!!.....Then after cake, dinner and return-gift we returned
home braving the trucks & biggg long -tailed trucks over the highway...
Mishti slept in the car and was wide awake as she reached home
by 11:30PM. Her mashu (my sis) changed her to night suit and fed her milk while
I glued to facebook. After half an hour of struggle, mashu came out with her
darling niece who didn't sleep and was more interested in her climbing stunts
when put to bed. So I took the charge and took her to bed....forced her to lie
down and kept patting while holding her legs tightly.....as she dozed I also
slipped to snooze land.... Ohhh What a day!!!
P.S. Edited to add Mishti's Piegon experience snap.
P.S. Edited to add Mishti's Piegon experience snap.
Glad to know you had an eventful day yesterday with some me-time to relax for a change from the daily routine :)
ReplyDeleteWow! the credit card accident was a close one...though it's good you finally found it in time :)
As far climbing the bed, it's the same story with my daughter too :)
Yeah ME...now I am recharged for whole week :-)
DeleteOhhh credit card incident was scary and I am so clumsy and careless...even I posted abt my losing habit(http://nibedita-bose.blogspot.in/2011/11/lost-it.html) sometime back...do read that and you would know :-)
Hey Pari & Mishti go hand in hand...hugs to Pari..
Nibedita... U sound so much like me... once I'm in Delhi we sure have to meet. :)
ReplyDeleteSure sure Falak....I look forward to meet u & Zoe :-)
DeleteLOvely NB (I hope u dont mind me calling u that). I am glad u had "your day" yesterday with lots of retail-therapy and parlor :)
ReplyDeleteArre I love being called NB...yeah this break was much needed!!
DeleteThat credit card incident has happened with me also.. i once kept it in a wrong place and then spent a lot of time searching for it.. :D n i still get a bit scared when pigeons appear suddenly... Mishti is quite brave!! :-)
ReplyDeleteMishti is indeed brave and not inherited her mom's genes in this matter... :-)
DeleteGreat info. Lucky me I recently found your blog by accident (stumbleupon).
ReplyDeleteI have bookmarked it for later!
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